venus: skip feedback cmd record on incompatible queue families

Feedback requires transfer capability, so we must skip feedback cmd
pool initialization on incompatible queue families. Meanwhile, use
pool_handle for all validity check needed.
- fence and semaphore feedback: skip feedback cmd alloc and record when
  pool_handle is VK_NULL_HANDLE
- event feedback: not affected as we patch in-place upon recording
- query feedback: assert the feedback cmd alloc is on supported queue

Part-of: <https://gitlab.freedesktop.org/mesa/mesa/-/merge_requests/38016>

.gitlab-ci/android-skips.txt

@@ -7,5 +7,7 @@ dEQP-VK.api.external.memory.android_hardware_buffer.*
 dEQP-VK.image.swapchain_mutable.*
 dEQP-VK.wsi.*
 
-# These tests cause hangs and need to be skipped for now.
+# Skip for now. The test is creating video queues without enabling video
+# extensions. To be clarified at spec level.
 dEQP-VK.synchronization*
+dEQP-VK.sparse_resources.queue_bind.multi_queue_wait_one_signal_one_other